Category: Hormone Health

  • When Men Feel “Off”: Understanding Functional Depression and the Role of Testosterone

    When Men Feel “Off”: Understanding Functional Depression and the Role of Testosterone

    By Andrew J. Hewitt, PMHNP-BC


    What Is “Functional Depression”?

    Have you ever felt like you’re running on empty—but still getting everything done?
    You go to work, take care of your family, and meet your responsibilities, but inside, you feel flat, tired, or disconnected. People might even describe you as “doing fine,” but you know something’s off.

    That experience is often called functional depression—sometimes referred to as high-functioning depression. It’s not an official diagnosis in the DSM-5 (the manual mental health professionals use to classify disorders), but it’s a very real experience for many men.

    Functional depression means that while you’re technically functioning—going through the motions of daily life—you’re not feeling emotionally well. You might describe it as:

    • Waking up exhausted even after a full night’s sleep
    • Feeling little enjoyment in things you used to love
    • Constant irritability or restlessness
    • Trouble concentrating or “brain fog”
    • Feeling emotionally numb, disconnected, or guilty for not being “grateful”

    Many men experiencing these symptoms assume it’s just stress, age, or burnout. But sometimes, there’s something deeper at play—both psychologically and biologically.


    Why Men Often Hide Depression

    Depression in men often looks different than in women. Instead of sadness, men might show:

    • Anger or frustration
    • Withdrawal from relationships
    • Overworking or over-exercising
    • Substance use to “take the edge off”

    Social conditioning plays a big role here. Men are often taught to “tough it out” or “handle it themselves.” This makes it harder for men to talk about depression or to recognize it when it’s happening.

    But bottling things up takes a toll—emotionally, mentally, and even physically.


    The Testosterone Connection

    Here’s something that surprises many people: testosterone, the primary male sex hormone, plays a major role not just in muscle mass or libido—but in mood regulation, motivation, and mental clarity.

    Low testosterone, known as hypogonadism, can produce symptoms that look a lot like depression:

    • Low mood or irritability
    • Fatigue
    • Brain fog or poor concentration
    • Sleep changes
    • Reduced libido or erectile difficulties
    • Loss of confidence

    A growing body of research over the past few years shows that low testosterone levels can contribute to or worsen depressive symptoms in some men (Walther et al., JAMA Psychiatry, 2020).
    It’s not the case for everyone—but for certain men, particularly those with “functional” or milder depression, testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) can make a real difference.


    How Testosterone Affects the Brain

    Testosterone interacts with your brain chemistry in powerful ways. It can:

    • Support dopamine activity (motivation and pleasure)
    • Regulate serotonin, which affects mood and anxiety
    • Reduce inflammation in the brain (linked to depression)
    • Help maintain cognitive sharpness and energy levels

    When testosterone is low, these systems don’t work as smoothly—which may explain why you feel “foggy,” unmotivated, or emotionally flat.


    Can Testosterone Therapy Help with Depression?

    Research over the last few years suggests that TRT may help reduce depressive symptoms—especially in men who already have low testosterone.

    A major review of 27 clinical trials found that men receiving testosterone reported significant improvements in mood and energy, particularly when given moderate-to-high therapeutic doses (Walther et al., JAMA Psychiatry, 2020).
    Another recent review in Frontiers in Endocrinology (2023) found similar results, emphasizing that TRT seems most beneficial when combined with therapy or lifestyle changes—not used alone.

    However, it’s not a universal fix. Some men don’t experience mood benefits from TRT, especially if their testosterone levels were normal to begin with. That’s why proper testing and evaluation are so important.


    When to Ask About Testosterone Testing

    If you’re a man experiencing ongoing symptoms of fatigue, irritability, or emotional flatness—especially if you’ve already tried therapy or antidepressants without much success—it might be worth checking your hormone levels.

    Your clinician can order a morning total and free testosterone test, along with other labs (like thyroid function, vitamin D, and blood count).
    Low testosterone is usually defined as below 300 ng/dL, though symptoms and clinical context matter just as much as numbers.

    If your levels are low—and no medical contraindications exist—your clinician might discuss testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) as part of a broader treatment plan.


    What TRT Looks Like

    TRT can be administered in several ways:

    • Injections (weekly or biweekly)
    • Gels or creams (applied daily to the skin)
    • Patches or pellets (less common)

    The goal is to bring testosterone into a normal physiologic range—not to “supercharge” levels.
    You’ll need regular monitoring (every 3–6 months) to check hormone levels, blood count, prostate health, and cardiovascular risk.

    Important: TRT is not appropriate for everyone. It may not be safe for men with certain heart conditions, untreated sleep apnea, or prostate cancer. Always discuss risks and benefits with your provider.


    TRT Is One Piece of the Puzzle

    While testosterone can help, depression—especially functional depression—is rarely caused by hormones alone.
    Men benefit most from a holistic plan that may include:

    1. Therapy
      • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) or Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) can help you identify unhelpful thoughts and behaviors and build emotional awareness.
    2. Lifestyle changes
      • Regular exercise, quality sleep, and good nutrition all boost mood and hormone balance.
    3. Social connection
      • Men with strong social support networks experience less depression and faster recovery.
    4. Medication when appropriate
      • If mood symptoms remain, antidepressants or other targeted treatments can complement TRT.

    Think of TRT as part of your mental health toolkit, not a magic cure.


    A Real-World Example

    “Mark,” 48, came to my clinic after months of feeling “off.” He was productive at work and keeping up with family life, but described constant fatigue, low libido, and irritability.
    His bloodwork showed testosterone levels below 250 ng/dL—clinically low.

    We started a holistic plan: moderate-dose TRT, therapy focusing on burnout and perfectionism, and simple lifestyle changes (better sleep hygiene, cutting caffeine late in the day, and light exercise).

    Four months later, Mark reported more energy, clearer focus, and improved mood. He said, “I finally feel like myself again.”

    Every man’s journey is different—but this story shows how intertwined mood, hormones, and identity can be.


    What to Watch Out For

    TRT has potential risks, including:

    • Increased red blood cell count (which can raise clot risk)
    • Prostate enlargement
    • Acne or hair loss
    • Fluid retention or mild blood pressure changes

    This is why regular lab monitoring is essential. Your provider will also track how your mood, energy, and cognition respond over time.

    If there’s no improvement after several months—or if side effects outweigh benefits—your provider may adjust or discontinue treatment.


    Breaking the Stigma

    Functional depression thrives in silence. Men are often expected to be strong, self-sufficient, and stoic—but emotional pain doesn’t make you weak. It makes you human.

    Reaching out for help—whether through therapy, lifestyle change, or medical evaluation—is an act of strength, not surrender.
    For some men, that may include looking at testosterone levels. For others, it might mean tackling perfectionism, stress, or burnout.

    The key is to recognize that “functioning” isn’t the same as thriving.


    The Takeaway

    If you’re:

    • Feeling persistently low or unmotivated
    • Experiencing fatigue, irritability, or brain fog
    • Losing interest in things you used to enjoy
    • Not responding to standard treatments

    …it may be time to take a closer look at your hormonal health along with your mental health.

    Functional depression in men is treatable—and recovery often begins with self-awareness and honest conversation.
    Whether the solution includes testosterone replacement therapy, psychotherapy, or both, the goal is the same: to help you feel like yourself again—fully alive, not just functioning.


    References (Simplified)

    (For readers who want to explore further.)

    • Walther, A., Breidenstein, J., & Miller, R. (2020). Association of testosterone treatment with alleviation of depressive symptoms in men: A systematic review and meta-analysis. JAMA Psychiatry.
    • Hauger, U. G., et al. (2022). The role of testosterone and hypothalamic regulation in depression. Reviews in Endocrine & Metabolic Disorders.
    • Forbes, M. et al. (2025). Testosterone concentration and incident depression in older men: A longitudinal cohort study. The Journals of Gerontology: Series A.
    • Schroder, H. S., et al. (2023). Framing depression as a functional signal, not a disease. Social Science & Medicine.
    • Harvard Health Publishing (2023). Is testosterone therapy safe? Take a breath before you take the plunge.

  • Effects of Andropause on Marriage

    Effects of Andropause on Marriage

    It’s often known that menopause causes mood swings and heat flashes in women, but can males experience comparable changes? Andropause, which describes the hormonal shifts men endure as they age, is a reality. Male males go through andropause when testosterone production naturally declines with age. Male testosterone levels diminish, and andropause symptoms appear around age 40 (Martelli et al., 2021). Medication and lifestyle factors can also contribute to a decrease in testosterone levels. Testosterone deficiency syndrome, androgen deficiency, and hypogonadism are alternative clinical terms for andropause. To be clear, andropause is not the male analog of female menopause. This loss of fertility does not affect every man equally.

    The doctor says that women in their late 40s come to the office regularly; they have been married for 20 years, have grown up with children, and have a happy and stable family life. Still, due to the effects of andropause, their husband suddenly told them they wanted a divorce. In American society, andropause has negative impacts on marriage; these effects include; divorce, according to the article “the male menopause and adultery. Do you need a doctor or a lawyer?” (“Male Menopause adultery and divorce,” 2022).

    Menopause in males for a long time, the medical community laughed off male menopause as a midlife crisis, but now they recognize the seriousness of this issue. Many of the symptoms that wives have long noticed in their husbands, such as lethargy, anger, weight gain, and a diminished desire to be sexually active, may now be ascribed to medical illnesses like Testosterone Deficiency Syndrome, often resulting in a complete cessation of any sex life for the couple.

    In many cases, the psychological manifestations cause the most distress. You should probably notice when he starts going to the gym after years of not exercising or when he starts dying his grey hairs. This might be an effort to improve his health, but it could also express a desire to attract members of the opposite sex to reclaim his former vitality (Jarecka, 2021). We’ve all heard the old saw about men who buy sports cars or motorcycles for the same reasons, but the natural warning signs are when he spends more time alone, starts staying late at the office, and try to hide their credit card bills.

    In many situations, regrettably, this attitude ends up with him having an affair, generally with a much younger trophy girlfriend. To many on the outside, it might appear craziness to walk away from a long-established family and leave up everything that the couple has built together, yet it is all too regular an event.

    References

    Martelli, M., Zingaretti, L., Salvio, G., Bracci, M., & Santarelli, L. (2021). Influence of work on andropause and menopause: A systematic review. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health18(19), 10074.

    Male Menopause adultery and divorce. Norriewaite.co.uk. (2022). Retrieved 25 August 2022, from https://www.norriewaite.co.uk/male-menopause-divorce.html.

    Biradar, N. Andropause: Ending of Fertile Life among Men. Jarecka, K. (2021). Symptoms of hormonal changes in Polish men and women in the second half of life. Andropause and menopause–similarities and differences. Health Psychology Report9(3), 252-263.